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Amazing women

With the reality that at any cost we still belong to the ‘patriarchal society’, with the same prejudices, ‘gossipy/ incompetent/ feeble/ sensitive’, I was in a search to find women in real. I must admit that I am surprised at their dispositions, the ways they suppress an ocean of strength; I must admit that women are not as simple as you think in these days when we celebrate International Women’s Day. In fact feminists claim that there should not be any discrimination in society and   a special day to acknowledge women is not essential!  Anyhow, the most important quality I must appreciate here is the dedication and sacrifice of women towards their families. Most of them don’t even think of a day or few moments to spare for themselves; they are eager and agonized with the household chores and children. I wonder if any one of these women has ever got a chance to sit, think and dream for even a few minutes about themselves. 

Another amazing specialty of women is that they may pretend to be feeble and meek. In my observations women are extremely strong, highly stable and robust, but they prefer to act as feeble. The virtue accustomed here is that they wish to remain submissive!  Strangely, in order to maintain the momentum of a peaceful environment they are ready to give up their expertise and power, not because they are afraid but they are concerned not to generate any ‘ego’ in their men. I have never ever imagined of much adorable ‘sacrifice’ than this from a woman.

Deep within every woman possesses one covetous quality -‘empathy’; they are ready to put themselves  in the position of anyone and refrain from encounters and hurts. This is one of the most attractive traits I am impressed with. The amount of sympathy every single woman possesses is astounding; they give up in most of the challenging occasions and feel proud that ‘he won’. 

Even though they are not attributed specially with some traits for being ‘caretakers’, they are ready to accept it. Every single woman is filled with agony and worries thinking about their children, husband’s health, relatives…here ends their sphere. There is nothing more in a world that exists; that would be one of the drawbacks we may have. Women don’t worry much about the surroundings and the universe. She is happy with her small world, confined and nestled. I am here dedicating this small observation to all the simple, normal mothers whom I felt like adorable. I know they have a sublimed vast ocean of power, knowledge and strength. But they are ready to give up everything, with this simple thought, ‘ she loves to see you bigger’. Nothing nobler than this … I am proud I am a woman!